Get out of Defense Mode, Reduce Stress and Increase Trust & Communication

Join us for Deep Into Defense Mode Live, a 2 day workshop on getting out of Defense Mode, building trust, and learning how to get people with Asperger's motivated in life

What You'll Get:

Deep Into Defense Mode Live is a weekend workshop that takes place in various places all around the United States. Once you've been through the workshop, you'll have a much deeper understanding of how Asperger's works, how to help & support people with Asperger's, as well as how to reduce stress in yourself, and increase trust in your relationships.

As part of this workshop you'll get:

  • 2 days of instruction, exercises and experiences (roughly 9 AM - 5 PM both days)
  • A workbook with diagrams and a space to take notes
  • Tons of opportunities to ask questions
  • Individual coaching & help as needed
  • New friends
  • A deeper understanding of yourself & people with Asperger's

What Past Attendees Say:

Register For DIDM Live Today

We designed Deep Into Defense Mode Live to be an utterly life-changing experience, filled with new understandings, deep breakthroughs, and a few surprises throughout. In the past we've had special guests and comedians, and an overall amazing time.

Since this event requires a certain level of maturity, we have to limit registrations to those age 15+. If your child is under the age of 15, please do not register for this event.

The price to attend is $497/person. Tickets always sell out, so make sure to buy your tickets ASAP so you don't miss out.

We're happy to give refunds for tickets up to 14 days before the event starts. We are unable to give refunds within 14 days of the event start date.

About Your Facilitators

Danny Raede is the CEO of Asperger Experts and was diagnosed with Asperger’s at age 12 when his parents noticed him having difficulties staying focused in school. He didn’t think much of it at the time and spent most of his time in his room playing video games such as Neverwinter Nights and World of Warcraft. His parents would say that he was very much addicted to the computer.

He now runs Asperger Experts in Seattle, Washington with an awesome team of parents, life coaches, and people on the spectrum. When he isn’t working he enjoys boating, adventures with friends, travel and watching the Food Network on tv. Through his work at Asperger Experts, he has been fortunate enough to reach millions of people and share his passion for a fuller, richer life experience.


For over 25 years, Eva Angvert Harren, has masterfully developed and taught her BEAM LiFE step-by-step body-centered awareness approach to people who wanted to move beyond their limiting beliefs about themselves and their possibilities.

Eva teaches you how to get Un-Stuck and fully connect with your Internal Guidance System (IGS), and find relief from your troubled past – all without having to relive your story. Actually, you don’t even have to tell your story. The process works either way.

She offers the BEAM LiFE Process, as a personalized, effective, and transcending practice to empower you to become more of You. She teaches her unique approach through experiential workshops, seminars, and one-on-one coaching. She believes that true wellness is reached when you heal from the Core.

Eva’s goal is that you will eventually not need her services. You will become a self-motivated person who will find Clarity in what you want, Confidence in what you do, and Courage in being You!

She is a Certified Integral Coach, Somatic Experiencing Practitioner (SEP), and a Certified TIPI Specialist.


First and foremost Titus is a lover of life! An explorer at heart, he is fascinated by the human landscape. As a coach, trainer, speaker and co-founder of Heroics Training Systems, his work focuses on activating and empowering human potential through reintegrating the mindbody as a functional whole.

He works with innovators, leaders and organizations to optimize performance and enrich the living experience. Titus says, “My passion is to create learning environments that foster the playful development of physical skill and somatic intelligence.”

The Experience

This isn't a 2 day glorified Powerpoint presentation: Expect games, exercises, deep breakthroughs & new friends

Deep Into Defense Mode Live is not an event where you will sit in a miserable little room for 2 days, listening to someone drone on from a Powerpoint. We've all done that enough in our lives, and can all agree that it sucks.

DIDM Live is an experience. Expect games, exercises (both physical and mental), deep breakthroughs, and tons of time for questions, community and connection.

While we can't cover everything during 2 days, DIDM LIVE focuses on learning what Defense Mode is, how to get out of Defense Mode... and ultimately how to stay out.

Each day we start at roughly 9 AM (Schedules can change slightly from venue to venue), and end at roughly 5 PM. Lunch is usually from 12-2 both days.

Detailed scheduled will be sent out closer to the actual date that you have registered for.

If you have any special requests, we are more than happy to accommodate. Just let us know via email once you have registered, and we will be delighted to take care of you.

Common Questions about DIDM Live

  • q-iconExactly where is DIDM Live held at?

    Once you register for the event, we’ll let you know of the venue. For events that are more than 3 months out, we may not have finalized a venue yet, but will notify you via email as soon as we have.

  • q-iconIf I buy a ticket, can I come on 1 day, and then have another person (child, husband, wife) come on day 2?

    No. DIDM Live builds upon the material from the previous day, so we require that if you are going to attend, that you attend both days. Otherwise you won’t get anything out of it and you will have wasted your money.

  • q-iconDoes my child need their own ticket, or can they come on my ticket?

    Every person (regardless of age) that joins us for DIDM Live will need their own ticket. 1 Person = 1 ticket.

  • q-iconWhat can I expect during the workshop?

    Expect 2 days filled with deep learnings, transformational breakthroughs, games, new friends, and more. We usually start at 9 AM and go until 5 PM on both days. Lunch is usually from 12-2 .

  • q-iconWhy can't kids under 15 come? Do you make exceptions?

    This event requires a certain level of maturity in order to get something out of it, so we require that people be at least 15 years old to attend. If your child isn’t 15, we’d be glad to see them when they are at least 15. We cannot make exceptions to this rule, but you are welcome to attend some of our other age appropriate events.

  • q-iconDo you have a group rate at a hotel?

    Each session of DIDM Live is limited to 50 people or less (depending on the venue), so we leave it up to you to find a good hotel that suits your needs. We do not have a group rate at a particular hotel.

  • q-iconDo I get a physical ticket that I need to bring?

    Nope! We’ll know who you are and expect you once you arrive. You don’t need to bring a ticket.

  • q-iconDo I need to bring anything to the workshop?

    Yes! Yourself, and an open mind. If you’d like to bring a snack you can.

  • q-iconIs this just for parents?

    Absolutely not! Kids (aged 15+ please) get a lot out of this workshop as well. Assuming they actually want to participate that is. Not much we can do for folks that aren’t interested in participating. However, we’ve found that even the most stubborn case usually comes around by the end of day 1.

  • q-iconCan I drop my kid off at this workshop and expect them to get something out of it?

    As long as they are age 18+, they may attend alone. However, if they are being forced to attend, they probably won’t get much out of it. 

  • q-iconIf my kid doesn't want to come, how do I make him get something out of this?

    You don’t. One thing we teach people at DIDM Live is to stop forcing, manipulating, and “making” and instead back off, listen, and begin to built trust.

  • q-iconWhats the schedule during both days?

    We start at roughly 9 AM both days and end at 5 PM ish. Lunch is from 12-2. The specific schedule will be emailed to you closer to the date you have chosen to attend, and may change slightly.

Register For DIDM Live Today

We're happy to give refunds for tickets up to 14 days before the event starts. We are unable to give refunds within 14 days of the event start date.