One of the earliest questions that we find most parents ask is “Should I tell my child they have Aspergers?”. On one hand, it is really nice to know what is actually going on, but on the other hand, there are completely valid worries about Aspergers becoming a label and an identity. We both know several people who have transitioned from “Human being with occasion Aspergers” to “Aspergers with occasional Human Being”, simply because they use it as an excuse all of the time.
The answer to this question is actually quite simple, and can be answered with another simple question. Watch the video below to find out what that question is, and what you should do.