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Deep Into Defense Mode Live

A 2 day family workshop on getting out of Defense Mode, building trust, and increasing motivation.

Great For Parents, Caregivers, Teens & Young Adults

What Will I Learn?

Understanding Defense Mode
What goes on inside the mind & body of someone with Asperger's when they are in Defense Mode?
Holding Space
How to help someone else get out of Defense Mode, without even talking to them.
Stop Walking On Eggshells
How to hold boundaries and say no in a way that doesn't put them further into Defense Mode, so you can stop walking on eggshells.
Motivation Without Coercion
How to motivate someone on the spectrum... without resorting to arguing, manipulation, reward or punishment.

Who Is This Workshop For?

Great For...
Parents & Caregivers
Teenagers & Young Adults who want to participate & be there
Therapists who want to learn a new approach to helping people on the spectrum
Not So Great For...
People on the spectrum that don't want to participate in the workshop
Parents who aren't willing to examine their own habits & beliefs
People who are on the lower functioning side of the Autism Spectrum
People on the spectrum under the age of 15

Workshop Curriculum

Defense Mode & Overwhelm
Emotional Resource Theory
Why people with Asperger's get shut down, overwhelmed & in Defense Mode, and what the difference is between when they can't... and when they won't.
Understanding Overwhelm
What happens internally when someone with Asperger's is overwhelmed, and how do you help them feel less stressed?
Meauring Defense Mode
How do you know when it is truly a Defense Mode issue, and when they are just being lazy or defiant?
Motivation & Influence
Red Line VS Blue Line
There are 2 main ways to motivate someone. Red Line works in the short term, but has disastrous long term consequences. Which one are you using?
Holding Others Accountable
How to hold others accountable and make sure things get done without adding to the collective stress of the family.
Ways To Motivate
Different & unique ways to motivate someone on the spectrum to become more independent, responsible & accountable.
Trust & Relationships
Building Trust The Easy Way
The 4 part trust recipe that allows you to build a real, genuine relationship.
Holding Boundaries
Our process for holding boundaries and expressing your needs in a safe & non-threatening manner.
Communication Strategies To Get Heard
Ways to make sure what you have to say is heard, understood & listened to by the other members of the family.
Environments & Biology
Vagal Tone & Other Biological Measurements
The most important biological measurements that tell you if you are stressed, in Defense Mode, or calm & relaxed.
Creating Environments That Destress
There's a way to make small adjustments to your physical environment so that simply by being in that environment, you are less stressed. We'll show you how.
Self Care & Recovery
The importance (and steps) to taking time to relax, recover & take care of your self. (And the difference between recreation and relaxation... that most people miss.)

Workshop Schedule

Saturday, March 21st, 2020
8:30 AM
Arrive & Get Settled
9 AM - Noon
Morning Session
Noon - 2 PM
Lunch (We'll provide)
2 PM - 4 PM
Afternoon Session
4 PM - 4:45 PM
Questions
Sunday, March 22nd, 2020
8:45 AM
Arrive & Get Settled
9 AM - Noon
Morning Session
Noon - 2 PM
Lunch (We'll provide)
2 PM - 4 PM
Afternoon Session
4 PM - 4:45 PM
Questions

About Your Instructor

Danny Raede
Co-Founder of Asperger Experts
Danny Raede was diagnosed with Asperger's & ADHD at age 12, after his parents noticed him isolating and having a hard time in school. He spent most of his childhood in his room, playing video games alone. After going to college in Denver, CO, he moved to Seattle, WA to start Asperger Experts.

He now resides in his hometown of Santa Barbara, CA where, in addition to running Asperger Experts, he enjoys tacos, travel and a good book. But let's be honest here, mainly tacos.

$497.00

Only 30 spot(s) left
March 21st & 22nd, 2020
Pasadena, CA
Age 15+ Please (No one under 18 may attend alone)
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Refunds Available Until 14 Days Prior To The Event
Questions About This Event?

Frequently Asked Questions

If I buy a ticket, can I come on 1 day, and then have another person (child, husband, wife) come on day 2?

No. DIDM Live builds upon the material from the previous day, so we require that if you are going to attend, that you attend both days. Otherwise you won’t get anything out of it and you will have wasted your money.

Can I drop my kid off at this workshop and expect them to get something out of it?

As long as they are age 18+, they may attend alone. However, if they are being forced to attend, they probably won’t get much out of it, and we can't force them to stay.

Do I get a physical ticket that I need to bring?

Nope! We’ll know who you are and expect you once you arrive. You don’t need to bring a ticket.

Do you have a group rate at a hotel?

Each session of DIDM Live is limited to 50 people or less (depending on the venue), so we leave it up to you to find a good hotel that suits your needs. We do not have a group rate at a particular hotel.

Why can't kids under 15 come? Do you make exceptions?

This event requires a certain level of maturity in order to get something out of it, so we require that people be at least 15 years old to attend. If your child isn’t 15, we’d be glad to see them when they are at least 15. We cannot make exceptions to this rule, but you, the parent(s), are welcome to attend without your child. We would love to have you!

Is this the best workshop for me?

We don't know because we don't know you. But you are more than welcome to get in touch by clicking/tapping on the chat bubble in the bottom right of your screen to get in touch and tell us more about your situation and we can advise you on which workshop or course to sign up for.

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